Since 1993, we’ve been a safe haven for crossdressers, transfeminine, and gender‑fluid individuals — a place to explore your identity, express your truth, and live unapologetically. This community exists for affirmation, not approval. Every story shared weaves into a vibrant tapestry of courage and visibility, reminding you that you are seen, you are valued, and you belong.

What’s your name? What are your pronouns? Where are you located?
Hello, my name is Trish Lamore, and I live in the Sandhills area of North Carolina.

What’s your favorite thing about expressing your feminine side?
I believe there are numerous benefits in expressing one’s feminine side.  Foremost is the ability to remove oneself from the drudgery of everyday life.  When the pressures of life become too great, sliding on a thong, bra, and breast forms somehow make everything okay.  Put on a little makeup and a hair piece, and viola, life is great.  Stockings and stilettos round out the ensemble and make the pressures of life a distant memory.  Finally, some jewelry completes the transformation and provides an express ticket to your happy place.

In my case, another benefit is a more comprehensive relationship with my Significant Other (SO).  She has embraced the concept of my crossdressing and has provided me with countless tips on everything from hair to shoes and everything in between.  Dress-up nights are definitely better with two people. I should also mention that I feel as if I now have a better understanding and appreciation of some of the many challenges women face in everyday life.

How would you describe your style?
As a youth during the 50s and 60s, I was exposed to the ubiquitous gas station pinups.  These photos, while nowhere near the explicit photos of today, were usually tastefully scandalous, and left much to the imagination of the viewer.  The subject of the photos was usually clad in bra, panties (no thongs yet), garter belt, stockings, heels, and smoking a cigarette. Clearly a bygone era that we try to recreate in some of my photos.

Where are your favorite places to shop?
In my opinion, this is probably one of the more difficult hurdles to clear. Clothes that are designed for a female figure don’t usually flatter or fit a male figure.  Shopping at consignment/thrift/secondhand stores gives you an opportunity to try a variety of clothes at a fraction of the original price.  Once you have found which designers/manufacturers fit and who carries those labels you might consider investing in a wardrobe.  A word of caution is warranted here, shopping for your female self can become addictive!

Online shopping offers a much greater variety and costs savings.  As a result, most of my clothes shopping is now done online, but I would much prefer to shop in person.  I should also note that since I have been dressing, I have never let the thought of a male shopping in a women’s store bother me.   To the contrary. Most of the sales associates I have encountered have complemented me on my selections.  On more than one occasion, they have asked where in the store I got the piece of clothing so they could get one in their size.

As for places I frequent; Shein, TBFS, Jessica Simpson, Carmen Liu, Rainbow, and ChicMe.

What piece of advice would you share to someone starting dressing?
I would like to take the liberty of offering several pieces of advice.

Schedule a makeover and possibly a photo shoot at your earliest convenience. Experience the pampering that has been reserved for the female community too long.  In addition to learning a great deal, you’ll see just how marvelous you can look.  Photos will only provide further encouragement to dress.

In our current turbulent political environment, practicing caution while venturing into public spaces is advisable.

At some point in your adventure, you will encounter discussions concerning tucking.  Some of the How-To videos describe it in almost mystical terms.  If you intend to wear a thong, swimsuit, or just about any other skimpy piece of clothing, you might consider a FUFU Clip.  These 3D printed devices securely capture your manhood and keep it in place.   Gone are the worries about exposing inappropriate body parts or just being uncomfortable.

Follow your heart.  Treat others the way you wish to be treated.  Have fun!