One of the most frequent questions we receive from girls reaching out to us is where to find reliable, welcoming spaces to connect with others. Navigating your gender journey — whether you are taking your very first steps en femme or have been living authentically for years — can sometimes feel isolating. We know how frustrating it is to sift through outdated lists and broken links just trying to find a safe space to land.

To make things easier for you, we went through dozens of directories, verified current active groups, and curated a comprehensive list of community hubs. Every resource listed below offers support groups, social events, or online spaces tailored for crossdressers, trans women, gender-nonconforming individuals, and everyone in between.

Online Community

• Transgender Pulse — https://www.transgenderpulse.com/forums/

USA Resources

• A Haven for us — https://www.ahavenforus.org/get-support

• Sigma Epsilon, Atlanta (Chapter of Tri-Ess International) — https://www.sigmaepsilonatlanta.org/public/

• TCNE, Trans Community of New England — https://tcne.org/

• The DC Trans Ladies Community and Events (Washington, DC) — https://www.meetup.com/dc-transladies-community/

• Transgender Education Association (Washington, DC) — https://www.tgea.org/?page_id=275

• The DC LGBTQ+ Community Center (Washington, DC) — https://thedccenter.org/

• En Femme (Grand Rapids, MI) — https://grpride.org/groups/en-femme-femme-identified-crossdresser-group/

• The Pride Center (New Jersey) — https://www.pridecenter.org/

• Out in Jersey (New Jersey) — https://outinjersey.net/

• River City Gems (Sacramento, CA) — https://www.rivercitygems.org/

• Emerald City Social Club (Seattle, WA) — https://www.theemeraldcity.org/

• Affirmations (Detroit, MI) — https://goaffirmations.org/

• AuSable Inclusion Center (Michigan) — https://www.ausableinclusioncenter.org/gather

• Billy DeFrank LGBTQ+ Community Center (San Jose, CA) — https://defrankcenter.org/

• Chicago Gender Support Alliance (Chicago, IL) — https://chitowngender.org/

• MKE LGBT (Milwaukee, WI) — https://www.mkelgbt.org/events

• Mount Pleasant Pride Center (Michigan) — https://www.mppridecenter.com/events

• OutFront Kalamazoo (Michigan) — https://www.outfrontkzoo.org/calendar-of-events

• SF LGBT Center (San Francisco, CA) — https://www.sfcenter.org/

• Spectrum N.E.W. LGBT Group (Wisconsin) — https://www.facebook.com/groups/851311348980616/

• Straits Pride (Michigan) — https://straitspride.org/

• The San Diego LGBT Community Center (San Diego, CA) — https://thecentersd.org/transgender-services-project-trans/

• The Diversity Center (Santa Cruz, CA) — https://www.diversitycenter.org/wellbeing-programs

• The LGBTQ Center (Indiana) — https://www.thelgbtqcenter.org/

• Pittsburgh Equality Center (Pittsburgh, PA) — https://pghequalitycenter.org/events/

• Washington County Gay Straight Alliance (Pennsylvania) — https://wcgsa.org/

• MN T-Girls (Minnesota) — https://hannahmcknight.org/mn-t-girls/

Canada Resources

• Trans Women Sisterhood of Canada — https://www.facebook.com/groups/transwomensisterhoodofcanada/

• It Gets Better Canada — https://itgetsbettercanada.org/events/

• The Cornbury Society (Vancouver, BC) — https://www.cornbury.org/about-cornbury/

• Xpressions (Toronto, ON) — https://xpressions.org/

• Masquerade (Winnipeg, MB) — http://www.masquerade.ca/

• Qmunity (Vancouver, BC) — https://www.qmunity.ca/programs-services

• Chilliwack Gender Support Network (Chilliwack, BC) — https://chilliwackyhc.com/chilliwack-gender-support-network/

UK Resources

• The Beaumont Society — https://beaumontsociety.org/

• Beaumont Tempsford — https://www.beaumonthuntingdon.co.uk/

• Blackpool Renaissance Trans Support Group — https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100064720115139#

• Bristol Crossroads — http://www.bristol-crossroads.org.uk/

• Diamonds (Cambridge) — http://www.diamondstgc.org.uk/

• Canterbury Trans Network — https://www.facebook.com/groups/183832192046597

• The Clare Project — https://clareproject.org.uk/

• Hart Gables — https://www.facebook.com/HartGables

• Derbyshire LGBT+ — https://www.derbyshirelgbt.org.uk/

• Four Pillars (4 Unity Cafe) — https://www.fourpillarsuk.org/4unity/

• Hastings and Rother Alliance Trans Group (HRRAT) — https://www.facebook.com/groups/206016509499145/

• TV Chix — https://tvchix.com/

• LGBTQ+ Project — https://lgbtqproject.org.uk/meetups/

• Leicestershire LGBTQ Centre — https://www.leicestershirelgbtqcentre.org/social-support-groups/

• London Trans + Meetup — https://www.outsavvy.com/organiser/london-trans-meet-up

• Lynx Ladies — https://lynxladies.co.uk/

• Older LGBTQ+ (Stoke-on-Trent) — https://olgbtstoke.org.uk/meetings-and-activities/

• Not Alone Plymouth — https://www.notaloneplymouth.co.uk/

• Nottingham Chameleons — https://www.nottinghamchameleons.co.uk/event-calendar/

• Oasis Norfolk — https://oasisnorfolk.com/

• The Out House — https://theouthouse.org.uk/whats-on/

• Proud2Be — https://www.proud2be.org.uk/adults/online-group/

• London Friend — https://londonfriend.org.uk/social-support-groups/

• Trans+ Social Meet-up Cardiff — https://www.facebook.com/groups/tsmucardiff

• Equity Partnership — https://www.equitypartnership.org.uk/events-activities/

• Trans-Matters Social (Wolverhampton) — https://www.facebook.com/groups/783541685040525/

• TransSwindon (Swindon) — https://www.facebook.com/groups/swindontggroup/

• Trans in Gloucestershire — https://transinglos.org.uk/social-spaces/

• Transgender Fife — https://www.facebook.com/groups/1329812410428739/

• Transgender Perth (Scotland) — https://www.facebook.com/groups/perthtggroup/

• TransLondon — https://www.facebook.com/groups/129183006047/

• LGBT Foundation — https://lgbt.foundation/events/

• TransPALS UK — https://www.facebook.com/groups/TransPALS.uk

• TransWakefield — https://www.transwakefield.org.uk/

• UK Angels - Transgender Community — https://www.facebook.com/groups/UkAngels

Elsewhere

• A Gender Agenda (Canberra, Australia) — https://genderrights.org.au/about-aga/

• Transgender Radio (Australia) — https://tgr.net.au/wp/welcome

• The Seahorse Society (Brisbane) — https://www.seahorsesoc.org/index.html
  
  

• The LGBTQIA+ Center of Nantes (France) — https://www.nosig.fr/page/2393804-agenda-de-la-semaine

• The LGBTQIA+ Center of Paris and Île-de-France (France) — https://www.centrelgbtparis.org/

• Le Girofard (Bordeaux, France) — https://www.le-girofard.org/

• Centre LGBTQIA+ Marseille (France) — https://centrelgbtqiamarseille.org/agenda/

• Weissenburg Zentrum LSBTIQA+ Stuttgart (Germany) — https://www.zentrum-weissenburg.de/

• Gay Project (Ireland) — https://gayproject.ie/

• Outhouse LGBTQ+ Centre (Dublin, Ireland) — https://outhouse.ie/peer-support/

• Transcafe Rotterdam (Netherlands) — https://transcafe.nl/en/home-2/

• Centre LGTBI de Barcelona (Spain) — https://ajuntament.barcelona.cat/lgtbi/ca/serveis/centre-lgtbi-de-barcelona/serveis

Connecting with a community that understands your story is one of the most empowering steps you can take. Whether you are stepping out en femme for the very first time or looking for lifelong friends who share your experiences, finding your people makes all the difference.

Community resources are always evolving, so if you know of an incredible local organization, support group, or event space that we missed, please drop us a message! We want to keep this guide as fresh, accurate, and supportive as possible for everyone in our community.