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Meet Drea Kay
What’s your name? What are your pronouns?
Name: Drea Kay
Pronouns he/she Where are you located? (Just the state is OK!)
Location: Pennsylvania
What’s your favorite thing about expressing your feminine side?
I have a few favorite things about expressing my feminine side, firstly I love being able to express an authentic side of myself that few get to see. This side is more outgoing and bold, rather than reserved and standoffish. I am more chatty and flirty and just more fun while expressing this side of me.
Secondly, I love the support that I have received. My partner is supportive and has grown along with me in my journey. I have found friends within this community that have witnessed my evolution first hand and constantly remind me of how far I have come in a few short years. I have supportive individuals who are willing to assist me with my style and challenge me to step further out and explore looks and styles I never thought was possible.
How would you describe your style?
My style is continuously evolving. When first starting out I was very conservative in my approach and style. My first time out was very simple in a pair of jeans and a modest top with basic black heels and very natural makeup. Since then I've experimented with different looks and found that my style covers a wide range from elegant, to playful, to sexy or bold, and daring at times.
Where are your favorite places to shop?
Beside TBFS, I typically gravitate to Torrid as most their styles fit my frame, but I also have found items at large retailers like old navy or Kohls that works for me, I also tend to seek out items from Shein and Temu as they provide a convenience of purchasing anonymously online with styles that can't be found at in person retailers.
What piece of advice would you share to someone starting dressing?
My advice to anyone just starting out, I would say don't hold back. The community is tremendously supportive of you. My only regret is waiting so long to seek out this community and share this side of me to the world. I have received nothing but support, met some truly wonderful individuals, has been nothing but a positive experience since I put myself out there for the world to see. I’m so happy that i have as I have been told my smile is bigger than ever.
